Some dating coaches believe women should never approach men; they recommend women wait for their male partners to approach them. This stance sparks a lot of debate among the public.
A man or woman who represents the masculine energy enjoys better relationships when they start off by talking to each other first. This applies to anyone regardless of gender. Similarly, women who represent the feminine energy prefer relationships where they aren’t ignored or pursued.
When you’re interested in being the feminine energy, you need to act when motivated
Throughout the remainder of this piece, I use terms related to love that relate to the feminine. Anyone can use these terms by simply understanding how to balance their love relationships with the feminine energy.
Since the feminine energy needs to be approached before being utilized, a masculine approach could backfire if you simply say “Hello.” Instead, wait until he speaks to approach him and then use the feminine energy.
Avoid the masculine energy of direct communication, instead portraying yourself as “subtle and flirtatious” when interested in being the woman in a relationship.
To approach men in public without making it obvious that you’re scheming to start a relationship, display these cunning methods. They’ll put you on the offensive and draw him into a conversation.
Using these suggestions, I entice a man to believe they were his ideas.
Smiles and makes eye contact are required.
When making eye contact for a few seconds, briefly smile and then look away. Use flirty thoughts when doing this. Giving the younger individual a backward glance while maintaining a smile can help.
If he’s interested in talking to you, he’ll show up at your doorstep because you’ve just indicated that you want to meet him. If he doesn’t, then it confirms that he isn’t available or interested in meeting you.
Ask him an innocent question to lure him into a trap.
- Looking for directions?
- Looking for something?
- Looking for an answer?
Start by approaching him discretely and ask your question that way
Giving him the chance to assist you starts a conversation that feels right to me. This is one of my favorite images!
Since you can’t show him your phone with its clock already displayed, refrain from asking him the time. Instead, pick another time-related topic to discuss. If you pull out your phone and its clock is visible on the front, two minutes after asking him the time, people will think you’re silly.
Run into him
I’m not really advocating for you to accidentally bump into the man and start a conversation with him. Instead, try starting a conversation by accident by bumping into him. Don’t try this if you actually want to do it on purpose. Instead, try being very subtle and gentle when attempting this. Ideally, you should choose to bump into the man on purpose to test this theory out.
After approaching the guy, you need to come up with something to say. However, don’t stay in place like a deer caught in headlights; instead, think of something to say and move into an actual conversation once he looks at you.
Approach the solution with no other alternatives in mind.
Give him a compliment that isn’t sexual
Compliment him by finding something to praise him for. Subtlety is recommended. People will like you if they notice the book Quirky is reading or the jacket he wears. Plus, any quirks he exhibits are noteworthy.
I nervously approached a man to compliment him. I had no plan beyond that; I was simply being polite. He thanked me and began to smile, but he didn’t respond right away. After a few awkward moments, I decided to retreat.
Approach a man proved a failure as a whole
Talking about the weather can often be a necessity when talking to someone you’re attracted to. After delivering your compliment, make sure to have something else to talk about so you aren’t left awkwardly speechless. If your partner doesn’t continue the conversation, end the conversation unless you want to be the pursuer in the relationship.